Tuesday, 17 November 2020

The road less travelled !

Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult-once we truly understand and accept it-then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters.

Life remains to be a puzzle without answer for one who wants others to take charge of their life and choose their life based on others choices and outputs, in this process they try to fix future and their capabilities which could be enormous and endless.

Life has always been very candid in its outlook, you see what you want to experience!

For simple understanding let me put this in this way 

Once upon a time there lived a young boy who had been told that there is a treasure on other side of hill and naturally the child dreamt of possessing it, in his hunt for the treasure the young boy walking in woods towards hilltop left all possible routes available based on his feedback from people but after years of exploration he found that the route from woods which none explored was shortest way for the treasure with forest cover to sustain hunger of traveller and visual feast for the traveller. He cursed himself for not even thinking to explore that path who no one even tried to look at. 

Universe is dynamic in nature every output is totally based on multiple things , same task done by different people yield different results, never try to assure yourself as there is no assurance in life as the very reason of life on earth is to live in moment which opens up numerous probabilities but never a linear equation, once we understand we love to take risk rather pushing ourselves in comfort zone. Keeping ourselves in comfort zone is like pruning the wings rather strengthening them!

Survival of fittest!

Theory of evolution is best example of what a species gain when the choose to live strong and mutate to transform!

Love and light

Be with your Breath !

Saturday, 7 November 2020

Accept as it is !

 “A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval” - Mark Twain.

Life is all about what we make and bake with our senses, our very existence changes with our own perception and approval. The happiest man on earth is not who achieved more, but the one who accepted his every moment in life as it comes and made the best out of it, rather resisting! 

Accepting life as it comes gives us clues to move our cues for next moment rather building agony for resisting the existing truth. 

I just always remember the best story I have heard about acceptance is below-

A calm child who was a slow learner to pick his speaking skills but different from other children would be ostracised by the society’s mundane education system, even this child was stigmatised for not being smart enough and not brilliant by the teachers, but his parents accepted the boy as he is and just equipped him with things to learn and explore, his slow verbal development made him curious about ordinary things and he further could visualise in picture rather words this slow learner later became a super genius known by name “Einstein “. 

Many of Einstein theories are beyond our understanding even today, this only reconfirmed and reassure that nothing in gods creation is useless or less valued but we need to understand how to realise the real value of everything beyond conventional means , every situation, every individual , every moment in life is in front of us to make us learn something different , by accepting them we are half way towards success as remaining half is only to understand how it is different and explore how we can reap the results with that difference.

Don’t try to understand everything in life as many only to be accepted rather justified or understood. as sometimes acceptance gives us a chance to learn things or cherish better relationships which may not be understood today!




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